Reading saved my life.
When I became a mother, I was lost. My firstborn was premature. I was completely unprepared. Audiobooks during my commute became the parenting manual I didn't have. The Coddling of the American Mind. Books on unschooling. Books on Nordic childrearing.
I kept circling back to the same insight. Kids are naturally curious, creative, and social. And our system extinguishes all three.
Then I watched my own four go from curious to bored. The exact arc that earnest is built to reverse.